Contemplations

Open letter to my beautiful mother

To mummy dearest,

A mother is  a daughter’s best friend and I am glad you are mine. As I turn a year older today, I would like to say thank you. I am a bit emotional today because of the journey we’ve endured together. You were just about the same age when you had me, and for a woman with a job and steady future, I was your biggest fear. Despite everything you chose me. You took your time to be with me every step of the way. Life wasn’t a bed of roses, and I still remember all the odd jobs you took just to place food on the table. I remember how crazy you’d turn if anyone bullied me. You were all I knew for the first ten years of my life, and I am forever grateful for that.
I know you were scared and did not know what to do, but you loved me nevertheless. Today as I celebrate yet another year, I would like you to know I love you. You outdid yourself, mum, you were there the best way you knew how. You did your best to provide for me and even when everyone else did not want me- you loved me. Today mum, I dedicate my life to making you happy, because you deserve it. I am sorry for all the times I thought you did not love me. I am sorry for the days I stayed mad at you when you could not afford to visit. I am sorry for not saying I love you enough. I am sorry mum, for every time I might have broken your heart because you-you are the perfect mother. You raised me to love myself, to be confident. You taught me to laugh at pain and to fall in love with writing. You loved me with every bit of your being, and I am proud of you.
From my first steps to my first heartbreak, you always said the same encouraging words, “Mommy loves you-you can do it!” And, every time I heard this, I knew I could face anything. I remember your prayers mum, to date you never forget to pray for me. Where could I have been without those prayers? Today, I am not celebrating my birthday, but marking yet another year that a phenomenal woman has enjoyed motherhood. Everything I am and will be- it’s all because of you Elfira. I adore you.

 

Thank you mother, for raising a queen, you’re my hero!
Love,
Anita.

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(14) Comments

  1. Elfira says:

    I love you so much my daughter you have really make me proud .And my God bless youl.And I will always pray for you my daughter. A big hug from mummy.

    1. Anita says:

      Thanks mummy!

  2. Reuben says:

    Phenomenal woman! Kudos to her for raising a lady such as you. It took her a lot of effort to instill exceptional character and values in you. Happy birthday Anita?
    Now i feel like calling mother….

    1. Gloria says:

      Wow! First happy birthday Mamie.. May live to blow many more candles and achieve all your heart desires.. Pongezi to your mom for raising the phenomonal woman that you are..
      That name Elfira.. Wow. I want my daughter to be called that.
      I love you!

      1. Anita says:

        Thanks Glo…feel free…it is indeed a beautiful name for a beautiful woman!

    2. Anita says:

      Awww..thanks love.

  3. This is so touching!! I celebrate your mother, reminds me how my mum was emotional just the other day on her birthday when we sang for her. Happy Birthday to you Anita!!

    1. Anita says:

      Thank you Hellen! I know..we all owe it to our mothers.

  4. wow.. new visitor.. I love this, will be stopping by

    1. Hey Elvis!
      Thank you.

  5. Robinah says:

    One word girl just WOW!!! I celebrate your mum for being such a phenomenal and strong woman to have raised such a gifted lady.This made me so emotional.

    1. Awww, I was emotional too. It’s been a roller-coaster but our mums remain to be the best.

  6. Thank you for your own hard work on this website. My daughter takes pleasure in setting aside time for research and it’s really obvious why. All of us hear all regarding the dynamic form you create vital things via the web site and in addition boost participation from some other people on that area of interest while our simple princess has always been discovering so much. Enjoy the remaining portion of the new year. Your conducting a fantastic job.

    1. Anita says:

      Thank you so so much. I am truly humbled. Please don’t forget to share!

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